The UCF director of student involvement, Dr. Preston, told
the student directors the importance of having courageous conversations. On our
retreat, he explained that just because a decision could be easy doesn’t always
mean that is the best decision to make- sometimes making the difficult choice
and having a courageous conversation is necessary.
With having these wise words in my head, I knew I had to
make an important choice this year. I had to decide right then and there to
stand for integrity and make decisions based on what’s right. Because of this, I
had to have a very courageous conversation with one of my directors. I am
learning that is it difficult when you work with friends as it makes things
awkward when there is conflict. However, I learned that the awkwardness is
worth it. I chose to have a courageous conversation with my director whom I was
having trouble with. First of all, it was a beautiful conversation. Second of
all, it completely improved the issue and allowed both of us to move forward
once we were able to speak our peace, kindly.
Upon reflecting on it, I realized how important it was for
me to allow her voice to be heard. That is not an easy concept as I always
think I have the answers and want my voice to be heard just as much as her. I love
when God pushes these small little reality checks into my life, allowing me to
be reflective and learning life lessons. Senior year is a year that I will
focus on listening.
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